Men’s Emotional Health Coaching & Consulting
Real Conversations. Real Change. No Fluff.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just need to talk?
I’m Ina Hammer. I provide intelligent, intuitive emotional health coaching for men who are done bottling up stress, loneliness, or emotional pain.
In our sessions, you’ll experience deep listening, mindset-shifting insight, and zero judgement – a safe, confidential space to talk openly about life, relationships, divorce recovery, confidence, mental wellbeing – or whatever’s on your mind.
It’s not therapy – it’s real, practical coaching for when life feels heavy.
Because nothing changes if nothing changes.
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"Most men aren’t lacking strength.
They’re lacking someone who actually listens.
Strength isn’t silence.
It’s having the courage to speak.
Let’s hammer it out!"
Masculinity isn’t about being stronger – it’s about being real.
I provide compassionate, practical coaching for lasting change through the life transitions and challenges men often face
Divorce Recovery
Through personalized coaching and consulting, gain the tools to process your emotions, rediscover your strength, and create a life aligned with who you are becoming.
Relationship Guidance
Through guided conversations and insights for men relationship coach, gain the tools to communicate better, manage conflict, and nurture trust in your relationships.
Dating Strategies
Guiding men to understand themselves and approach dating with clarity and intention. Through coaching and consulting, discover how genuine confidence creates real connection.
Confidence Matters
Coaching and consulting designed to help men break free from self-doubt and step into confidence.
Because confidence isn’t born — it’s built, one step at a time.
Loneliness Solutions
Providing loneliness coaching and guided conversation for men who feel disconnected or unseen. You don’t need a crowd: just a real connection that feels genuine.
Just Talk
Offering counselling and guided conversation to help men process thoughts, emotions, and everyday pressures. You don’t need to have it all figured out: you just need a space to talk.
The Challenges
Men Face
Many men move through life carrying a weight they rarely name. Work pressure piles up. Relationships feel distant or complicated. A breakup, a divorce, or a quiet drift in confidence can leave them feeling invisible – even to themselves. In these moments, men also need emotional support and consultation. Friends may be around, but the conversations stay on the surface. Family might love them, yet certain worries can’t be shared without judgment or misunderstanding.
It’s not just the big crises. Most of the time it’s the slow build of stress, the lonely nights, the questions about purpose and direction. Men are taught to hold it together, to fix things alone, to “man up.” That conditioning makes it even harder to reach out when emotions feel heavy. The result is isolation: sleepless nights, constant self-criticism, and a sense of being stuck.Some men mask it with work, distractions, or a brave face. Others withdraw and hope that with time it will sort it out. But the truth is, unspoken struggles rarely fade on their own. They grow heavier, seeping into careers, friendships, and health.
How Ina
Works With You
This is where my role as a Men’s Emotional Health Consultant comes in. I provide a confidential, judgment-free space to offload the thoughts you can’t share anywhere else. Together we name what’s really happening, explore what is behind it, and uncover practical ways forward. Our work isn’t therapy and it’s not a quick fix. It’s real conversations – direct, compassionate, and focused on solutions. We tackle whatever it is that’s going on for you; divorce recovery, relationship guidance, dating strategies, confidence matters, loneliness, or simply the need to talk. Each session is tailored to you: where you are now, what you need most, and the life you want to build.
Through my coaching and consultation, which is especially for men, you gain perspective and relief by giving your worries a voice and mapping clear steps. You start to feel lighter, more grounded, and better equipped to handle whatever comes next. Change begins the moment you stop carrying it alone. Book a Consultation with Ina Hammer to start your journey today.
What Clients Say
"When I came to my first session with Ina, I had just come out of a four-year relationship with a highly toxic lady. I was heartbroken, confused and did not know what to do with myself. Even within the very first session, Ina made me feel at ease, I felt so safe opening up to her, she is very personable. In every session she listens with empathy and non-judgment, but more than that; she has some amazing insights and life skills, and these have really shifted my mindset into positivity."
Jay H, (Male Age 32)
"I was told about IconicMan Mastery from a friend who knows Ina from a few years’ back. My friend knew I was struggling when it came to dating, I felt too shy to approach girls, I also felt embarrassed because I have had very little experience with girls and dating. I didn’t know what to expect when I enrolled in the IconicMan Mastery program, I just thought it could be worth a try. It has been very eye-opening; I have learnt a lot just halfway into the program. I look forward to the sessions with Ina every week."
Ron T, (Male Age 33)
"Ina is a coach with a golden heart. Her sincerity and positivity shone through at every session we had. She listened as well as sharing her own meaningful life experiences which I could resonate with. I am thankful to have known her."
Wee.S, (Female Age 36)
"Ina is so easy to talk to, I could talk to her all day long! Her sessions are intuitive, and she has a wealth of knowledge and tools in her arsenal to help guide her client to feel calmer and more self-confident. Highly recommend choosing Ina as your consulting coach!"
E.C-P, (Female Age 41)
"Ina has been fantastic for me and totally turned me around. I feel I can discuss anything with her, she won't judge but is a great listener - sharing is a wonderful thing. She will offer wise words and make you look at problems from a different perspective, glass half full and offer alternative ways of dealing with problems. I can't recommend her highly enough."
Darren, (Male Age 62)
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Real Talk. Safe Space.
Clear Boundaries.
A coaching relationship is built on integrity, trust and respect – which I take seriously.
You’re in a judgement-free zone, but you’re also not here to cross any lines.
I do not provide a dating service. It’s not a place for flirting or fantasy talk.
What it is; a solid space for men who want to work on the stuff that will actually create a change in their lives.
Let’s talk.
Frequently asked questions
What is Men’s Emotional Health Coaching and how does it work?
It’s a private, no judgment space where you can talk about whatever’s weighing on you—divorce, relationships, confidence dips, loneliness, or simply the need to offload. We have real conversations, explore what’s happening beneath the surface, and map practical next steps together.
Why is emotional support important for men today?
Men are so often taught to keep feelings in check. Over time, that silence can show up as stress, burnout, or disconnection. Having a safe place to talk through life, this support for men is often the first step to relief and clarity.
In What Ways Can Men’s Life Coaching Transform Daily Life?
When you stop carrying everything alone, you feel lighter, you sleep better and communicate more clearly. Clients notice stronger relationships, better connections with others, more confidence at work, and a renewed sense of direction. With Ina’s Coaching and Consultation, every day challenges start feeling manageable, and real progress becomes possible.
How do I book a consultation with Ina?
Book on Calendly, fill out the short form on the Contact page or email me directly at (email). We’ll set up a free strategy call to see if we’re a good fit.
What kinds of challenges can INA help with?
Divorce recovery, relationship issues, dating strategies, confidence matters, and loneliness are the most common but if something’s bothering you and you can’t share it elsewhere – bring it!
What results can I expect?
Most men leave sessions feeling clearer, lighter, and relieved. Real change depends on you and your willingness for change. Because nothing changes if nothing changes. With consistent sessions, you can feel a shift in perspective and have a lasting impact.
Can this help with feelings of loneliness?
Absolutely. Many clients come to talk through isolation, confusion, or that “stuck” feeling.
What are your consultation fees and packages?
We’ll discuss pricing during the free strategy call. Packages are flexible and tailored to your needs.
How long does an engagement last?
Ideally, in order to create deep and lasting changes, several sessions are needed. We’ll decide together.
Do you offer sessions in-person and online?
Yes, in-person in Dubai, or online video sessions – whatever you prefer. Or a combination of both.
Are sessions confidential?
Absolute confidentiality is a given.
Do I need to prepare anything?
No. Just show up as you are, but you may want to decide in advance what you’d like to discuss in the session.
Can we talk about both personal and professional challenges?
Yes. Emotions don’t stay in one lane – work and personal life often overlap.
How flexible are session times for busy professionals?
We’ll find slots that fit your schedule, including evenings and weekends.
Is online life Coaching as effective as face-to-face?
Yes. Some clients prefer the convenience of video or phone sessions, not having to leave their office, whilst others prefer the face-to-face connection. With an experienced and certified life coach online, you still get the same clarity, guidance, and support — wherever you are.